This marks 150 of these things. Bizarre. Let's see if I have anything interesting to say.
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I was getting petrol at the BP on Adelaide Rd around midnight. They lock the doors to the shop area late at night, so you have to go up to the window and pay before you get your petrol... which works oddly if you're filling the car up. Anyway, I was waiting in line to finish paying, and I notice the older chap in front of me - no shoes, hospital pyjamas, seemed a bit slow, and asking the attendant for a bottle of meths. The taxi driver he had waiting for him was saying he couldn't have it, but the transaction went on regardless.
Now, the first thing I thought was that he was going to drink it; but he seemed to have a fair bit of money in his wallet, and he was paying for a taxi, which argued that he'd be able to afford something that wouldn't cause you to get pretty ill pretty quick. So maybe he had some legitmate use for it? But what legitimate use is consistant with hospital pyjamas? I wondered about intervening, but I wasn't really sure how. Offering to pay for a bottle or two of wine instead didn't seem like the right solution, and is kind of patronising as well. I think that if I'd been the station attendant, I'd probably have refused to sell him the meths... but is that qualitatively different from a pharmacist refusing to sell condoms without proof that the purchaser is married?
I kinda wish that I'd thought of something to do.
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The trip up to Foxton to collect various items from my uncle's went fairly smoothly. My passengers were told the tale of my trip to Foxton via the Waiarapa - a calumny that I'd have more success defending myself against if (a) it weren't true, and (b) I hadn't gone to Ngaio to pick one of them up via a slight detour up Ngauranga gorge. (C assured me that she hadn't been waiting too long. :) A special mention of the iron willpower showed by my travelling companions is probably in order - neither of them bought anything at the Nyco choclate factory. (I was not so strong.)
I was meant to go to two parties that night, including a "Holywood" party with compulsory costume; but despite my best intentions (and actually constructing a boom operator's outfit, no doubt inspired by my brother), I only managed to get to one of them. There were a bunch of people who I don't see much anymore, now I'm not flatting with Kate, so it was nice to catch up with them; but I was running a game on Sunday, so I went home about half-past eleven.
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I was walking to past a friend's desk last Thursday on some task when she asked me, out of the blue, what the most romantic love song was. While I was busy being boggled, it turned out that "Lovesong" by The Cure had sparked off the conversation, since she had thought this was the most romantic thing ever when she was a teenager. I'm afraid I didn't have any particular insight - I suggested that Chris Knox's "Love Not Given Lightly" seemed pretty sincerely heartfelt - but I thought I might throw it out to the general audience for suggestion. Anyone want to chime in?
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The game on Sunday went fairly well - it could have done with a little polishing on my part, but my worries about some of the players being left out were unfounded. And we neatly sidestepped the issue of my brother being absent by having his character being possessed throughout the episode. (Quick summary for said brother - you remember those two thugs that killed Thom's mother, tried to mug Maggie et al. and were scared off, got ambushed by a vampire where one got killed, and then the other one was grabbed by the werewolves and shot by Thom in the warehouse, ending up in the hospital? Well, it turns out that the one that was shot was put in an insane asylum, and in this game his friend who'd come back as a vampire broke him out... Now, you remember how Maggie used Sarah's ghost to help hide Ethan from his sorcerous father? Well, Thom's mother used that opening to possess Ethan, and hied off in pursuit of the vampires. Jo totally kicked ass, by the way - two vampires dusted, one after the other, bam, bam. They saved Laura's dad, found out a bunch of what's going on, and Ethan has recovered and has been tucked safely in bed by Maggie. Aww.)
Then it was back into town for dinner with Jenni, Lee & C, and meeting up with Rach-to-the-B, closely followed by a really, really long 48-Hour Film Competition award thing. Some really good short films, and no terrible ones. The presenter was fairly harsh about one of the sessions, and when people said, "Aww," he said, "You didn't see them." This was both funny and appalling. :) I'm glad I saw what made it to the final round - judging from this, I'd recommend watching the C4 show.
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There we are - anecdotes, a moral dilemna, and a request for opinions about music. About the only other things I could do to encourage people to comment is to say something contentious about the latest Star Wars movie, or mention that I've started going out with someone. Unfortunately, I don't have anything interesting to say about the Revenge of the Sith. >;)
Posted by svend at May 30, 2005 4:56 PMCongratulations, Svend! and Significant Other!
May I recommend "To Zion" by Lauren Hill (The Miseducation of Lauren Hill) as a love song.
Posted by: Steve at May 30, 2005 7:32 PMI always liked "This Must Be The Place" by Talking Heads, but I dunno if there's anything significant in the lyrics or anything.
more details please...
Posted by: andrew at May 30, 2005 8:23 PMMy votes go towards "Into my arms" by Nick Cave
"All I want is you" by U2 and
"Stuff and Nonsense" by Spilt Enz
Posted by: Jenni at May 30, 2005 9:37 PMI got nuthin' Svend. I'm sorry.
No that's not true, I've got a head fulla cold medicine, but that's not related to romance, anecdotes, chocolate or you seeing anyone.
I was at Giffy's house and they were eating ice cream out of bowls you bought. Pink ones that were very cute. Awwww...
Posted by: Jackie at May 30, 2005 10:33 PMOoh! I have followup! A personal second equal placing to 'Sway' (Bic Runga) and 'I Try' (Macy Gray). Third place to 'Not Given Lightly' - but you've got that one covered.
Posted by: Steve at May 31, 2005 8:36 AMSince love is not a single emotion, but has different feels and moods to it, I've a list of some of the ones I think more appropriate, and the points at which they mostly apply.
Breathless love: "My Heart goes Boom" - French Affair.
Desperate longing: "Anything for Love" - Meatloaf
The Perfect Balance: "Something Stupid" - Frank
Sinatra and Nancy
Dewey-eyed Emotional Love: "Love is in the Air" - John Paul Young
Cheers
G
And in the spirit of Grant's comment, my last serious (melancholic) love song is "The Captain" (Kasey Chambers) and my happy-in-love song is "Sunday Shining" (Finley Quaye).
Posted by: Steve at May 31, 2005 9:31 AM'The Perfect Balance: "Something Stupid" - Frank
Sinatra and Nancy'
Which was referred to at the time as "The Incest Song" - and it truly is an odd song for a fatehr & daughter to sing.
Congrats Svend on the SO!
Most romantic song. Hm. It's definitely not Bitches Ain't Shit by Dr Dre. Here's my shortlist:
Just Kissed My Baby by The Meters is the funkiest;
Cream by Prince is the Onanism-ist (he wrote it in front of a mirror;
Cactus by the Pixies is the longing-est;
All Night Long by the Mary-Jane Girls is the sexiest;
Baby Doll by N*E*R*D is the dumbest (and I'll back that up with a lyric: "Girl I feel just like a bird / But I am just a nerd / I would fly around this world / If I was from this world");
Isn't She Lovely by Stevie Wonder is the "platonic love for my child"-est;
Barely In Love by Q-Tip is the bareliest;
I'm A Fool To Want You by Billie Holiday is the saddest;
Perfect by Snoop Dogg is the unlikeliest (it's on the same album as Can You Control Your Ho);
You Make Me by Weird Al is the funniest ("You make me want to staple bagels to my face / Then remove them with a pitchfork");
Ruby's Arms by Tom Waits is the melancholiest ("So I say goodbye to Ruby's arms / You'll find another soldier / And I swear to god by Christmas time / There'll be somebody else to hold you");
Secret Agent Man by Johnny Rivers isn't a love song;
If I Was Your Girlfriend by Prince is the oddest;
Come Here by Dimmer is possibly the closest to how I actually feel about love;
but the BEST love song of ALL TIME is
(in my not so humble opinion)
the Letter by the Box Tops.
Gimme a ticket for an aeroplane
Ain't got time to take a fast train
Lonely days are gone, I'm a-going home
My baby just wrote me a letter
I don't care how much money I gotta spend
Gotta get back to my baby again
Lonely days are gone, I'm a-going home
My baby just wrote me a letter
Well she wrote me a letter
Said she couldn't live without me no more
Listen mister can't you see
I got to get back to my baby once more
Anyway, yeah...
You know, re: the alcohol/meths thing... having seen some pretty ...ill... people in my life, I would lean towards having a quick word with the taxi driver to find out about the situation. Then I'd probably have a word with the attendant and mention the phrase "manslaughter".
Depending on what the taxi driver says, it may be appropriate to slip the guy $20 to get some cheap wine or something. But it defintely sounded like the taxi driver knew a bit about the situation.
Just my two cents, though.